Feeding your own head.
Cool water, gin, kola, honey — whatever your Ori was told it takes — pressed to your own head with your own palms while you speak to it. No priest, no shrine, no money, no permission. It is the most private act in the religion and the one that addresses the only divinity that is yours alone.
Ibori, feeding the head, is the practice of propitiating one's own Ori, and it can be performed by anyone without a priest, a shrine, an initiation or a payment. The materials are cool water above all — coolness being the central Yoruba value of composure and blessing — together with gin, kola nut, honey, or whatever the individual's divination has specified their Ori takes. The person applies them to their own head with their own palms while addressing their Ori directly, often by praise names, asking it to support what they are attempting. Its theological position is remarkable in context: in a religion with expensive initiations, a professional divining class, hierarchies of orisha and elaborate collective ritual, the single most consequential relationship — the one with the destiny that governs your life — is entirely private and requires no institution whatsoever. Practitioners point this out when priests overreach, and the odu back them up.
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