Shinto

Tradition·Founding date unrecorded·est. ~100 million ritual participants, loosely held

Shinto → 1 branch

Branch
Rite of Shinto

The shrine wedding.

Three sips from each of three stacked cups — san-san-kudo — a pledge read aloud, a branch offered, and about twenty people watching. The form feels ancient and dates from the 1900 wedding of the Taisho emperor; before that most Japanese weddings happened in the house.

⏱ once in a lifetime, in principle◌ the couple, and traditionally only close family — around twenty people
What happensThe pair are purified, drink sake three times from three stacked cups each, read a pledge aloud, and offer a sakaki branch; a miko dances; the families exchange cups to become kin
What it needsA shrine, a white silk kimono and hood, and a priest
What it aims atSan-san-kudo, three-three-nine — the number of sips is the point. The whole form dates from a 1900 imperial wedding and is barely a century old
Understanding it — context, not catechism: how this rite is held

The shinzen kekkonshiki feels immemorial and is not: the form was essentially created for the 1900 wedding of the Crown Prince, later the Taishō Emperor, at a shrine within the palace, and popularised afterwards by Hibiya Daijingū. Before that, ordinary Japanese weddings were domestic affairs conducted in the house with no religious officiant. The rite is small — typically only close family, around twenty people — and its centre is san-san-kudo, three-three-nine: bride and groom each take three sips from each of three stacked lacquer cups, and the families then drink together to become kin. There is a purification, a pledge read aloud by the groom with the bride adding her name, an exchange of rings that was added in the twentieth century, and an offering of a sakaki branch. A miko performs a dance. Shrine weddings have declined sharply against Western-style chapel weddings, which are performed in wedding halls by hired officiants for couples who are not Christian, and which most Japanese people regard as a matter of dress rather than of religion.

The same ground, other faiths

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