Give it all up, or do not come.
There is no associate membership and no attending on Sundays. Joining means moving in and handing over what you own, and leaving means starting again from nothing.
There is no way to belong partially. Joining means moving into a community, handing over property, taking a Hebrew name and submitting to the elders' oversight of work, education, marriage and discipline. Members describe the totality as the point — a half-committed community is the thing they left. The cost shows on the way out: leaving after fifteen years means leaving with what you can carry, and second-generation members who leave have often had no state schooling and no documents of employment. The community's answer is that it feeds and houses anyone who stays.
The same ground, other faiths
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