Nobody grows alone — so everyone is discipled by someone.
Every member was paired with a discipler to whom they confessed and from whom they took direction on evangelism, money, relationships and time. The movement taught this as the New Testament pattern; former members describe it as the mechanism through which control ran, and the movement's own leaders apologised for how it was used.
Discipling partners came into the movement from the campus ministry at the Crossroads Church of Christ in Gainesville, Florida, in the 1970s, where Chuck Lucas developed a one-to-one prayer-partner and soul-talk system; McKean carried it into Boston and made it universal and hierarchical. Every member had a discipler, every discipler was discipled, and the chain ran up to the leadership. The relationship covered prayer life, Bible reading, evangelism, finances, time, dating and marriage; disciplers gave direction and it was expected to be followed. The movement taught this from Hebrews 13:17 and the pattern of Paul and Timothy. Former members have described it consistently as a mechanism of control operating through confessed personal material, and the Los Angeles leadership's February 2003 statement itself used the words authoritarian discipling. Some ICOC congregations retained a voluntary and mutual version afterwards; others abolished the practice.
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