Bar and bat mitzvah.
At thirteen the child reads from the scroll in public for the first time — not a graduation but a change of legal status: now obligated, now counted.
Nothing happens at a bar or bat mitzvah — that is the point most often missed. A Jew becomes obligated at thirteen (twelve for girls in traditional practice) automatically, by age, whether or not any ceremony occurs. The ceremony marks the change by giving the new adult the first public exercise of it: being called to the Torah, counted in a minyan, and held responsible for their own observance. Bat mitzvah for girls is a twentieth-century development, first in 1922, and its adoption traces the denominational map precisely.
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