The blessing ceremonies became the movement's public image: Madison Square Garden in 1982, Seoul Olympic Stadium in 1992, thirty thousand couples at a time. Matching was traditionally done by Moon himself, sometimes from photographs, sometimes across languages, and couples might meet days before. The ceremony involves holy wine, an indemnity stick, and a three-day ceremony completed later. Members describe the matching as the deepest act of trust the movement asks for, and second-generation members increasingly ask to choose their own partner and be blessed afterwards, which the church now accommodates. The proportion of blessed marriages that end is not published.